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HOW TO HANDLE PLAYING TIME DISPUTES
Playing time is one of the most volatile issues in recreational
sports today. And though parents may genuinely believe their child
deserves more exposure on the field or court, they do far more harm
than good by confronting coaches publicly and demanding playing
time. Here are some ideas to forestall and resolve these disputes:

For parents:
1. Heed your child's sense of the matter. Kids generally know who
deserves the most playing time. If they aren't aggrieved, you
probably shouldn't be either.
2. If your child is upset, suggest that she or he speak directly to
the coach. It will help your child develop courage and confidence.
You can help him or her rehearse the talk.
3. If this conversation doesn't help, speak to the coach yourself.
But be calm and reasonable, and remember that the coach has final say
on this matter.
4. Don't argue that the coach should play your child more. Instead,
ask how your child can improve and earn more playing time. Listen
carefully and follow up.
5. Realize that the coach must balance pressures to win against
pressures to play everyone, and that no one ever does so perfectly.
6. Understand that your children will not only remember your
behavior, but imitate it.


U6 Development of Individual Skills

COACH: Must be enthusiastic. Must be able to give encouragement. Must be

understanding and fair. Must be able to give equal playing time and

rotate positions. Cannot be concerned with wins and losses. Must secure

safe environment. Should play with players.

TECHNIQUE: Every player should have a ball. No elimination games. Establish

fundamental motor skills like running, jumping and rolling. Focus

heavily on kicking the ball, stopping the ball, dribbling the ball and

stealing the ball. No heading what-so-ever. Encourage individual

success.

TACTICS: No tactics taught. The player only understands themselves and the ball

and cannot think in an abstract or tactical manner. Get players to move

in the correct direction to score or defend. In the game, everybody

moves up and down the field as a unit. Do not leave defenders standing

at the top of the penalty box.

PHYSICAL: Poor eye, hand and eye, and foot coordination at this age. Balance is

increasing. Must be given frequent but short rest periods. They will give

the activity 100% effort until fatigued. Not much physical difference

between boys and girls. Do not have players run laps.

MENTAL: Poor judgment in regards to safety. The focus is on themselves as an

individual. Must be fun. Need positive reinforcement and praise. Prone

to exaggerate. Need plenty of room to move.

U8 Individual Skill Development

COACH: Passionate about children. Enhancement of U6 soccer knowledge.

Know basic rules of corner kick, goal kick, indirect kick, kick-off, drop

ball and minor fouls. Encourage sportsmanship. Should play with

players. Coach must be enthusiastic and sensitive. Wins and losses do

not matter. Nurturing manner.

TECHNIQUE: Enhancement of dribbling skills using all foot surfaces. How to receive

and control the ball. Starting to learn how to pass. Don’t encourage

players to just kick the ball down field. Start to encourage controlling it

and trying to keep possession. Learn to shoot. Every player must have

their own ball. 75% of practice should be on technique. Left and right

foot with every activity. All activities are to be done with a ball.

TACTICS: Players begin to understand themselves and a friend. Rotate players in

different positions. Width and spreading out on the field. Move up and

down the field as a unit. Penetrate defenses with quick passes.

Understand restarts. Still heavy emphasis on individual technique rather

than group tactics. Lots of 1v1. 2v1 and 2v2 towards goal. Plenty of

repetitions.

PHYSICAL: Improved eye, hand and eye, and foot coordination is improving but not

completely mature. Can be self centered. Skeletal system is growing.

Need full rest periods and plenty of water. No separate running should

be done. All activities with a ball.

MENTAL: Need constant reinforcement. Focus is on them and their friend. They

are beginning to develop time and space relationships. Easily bruised

ego. Make it fun. They have a great need for approval and have a fear of

failure.

U10 Development of Skill and Small Group

Tactics

COACH: Coach must be enthusiastic and passionate. Must have the ability to

demonstrate. Must be keen and sensitive as well as enjoy children. The

coach must seek soccer education. Must respect the game and all who

are involved with it. Focus on development rather than the result. Know

more soccer rules.

TECHNIQUE: Continued development on individual technique. Ball juggling. All

players must have a ball. Control and receiving as well as passing skills

should be heavily emphasized. Continued work on shooting. Activities

must include lots of repetitions. Teach Goalkeeping skills. 75% of

practice should be on technique. Encourage mastery of the ball. Left and

right foot with everything.

TACTICS: Build on small group activities like 2v1, 2v2, 2v3, 3v3-both offensively

and defensively. Teach some positional responsibilities but don’t spend

a lot of time on it. Continue to rotate players in positions. Learn depth

and cover as well as width. Teach throw-ins. Encourage flair and risk

taking.

PHYSICAL: Introduce stretching and cool downs. They need full rest periods and

plenty of water breaks. Players are becoming stronger and faster. Prone

to over heating and heat related injury. Players gaining better control

over their bodies.

MENTAL: Recognizes basic concepts of time and space but not always certain

why. Their focus is on “me” and the “team.” Still in need of positive

reinforcement. Want to belong to a group. Enjoy friends. Adults outside

of the family are accepted. They will blame others. They are more

sensitive and serious about playing. Feelings get hurt easily.

U12 Development of Individual Skills and Individual

and Group Tactics

Hero worship, identification with high level players and teams and a hunger and passion for

imaginative skills are important at this age. Demonstration is very important and players learn

best by doing. It is very important to establish discipline and instill an attitude necessary to

compete and succeed.

COACH: Must be enthusiastic; Possess soccer awareness; A sensitive teacher; Ability to

demonstrate; Knowledge of the key factors of basic skills; Give

encouragement; Seek soccer education.

TECHNIQUE: Important to establish a good strong base. Increase technical speed. Develop

under pressure of time, space and opponent. The technical training must far

outweigh anything else in this age group.

1st Touch All surfaces and on the move.

Passing All surfaces and on the move. Proper timing, weight, accuracy and disguise.

Dribbling Encourage risk taking. They must be allowed to run at players and take them

on. We want players who can make things happen.

Shooting Proper striking technique-service from all angles, 1st touch, preparation to strike

and attitude to score

TACTICS: Play a variety of positions. Promote attacking soccer

Individual 1V1

Attacking Take players on. Encourage the creative risk taker. Shielding.

Defending Proper pressure (in front and from behind), How to jockey and how and when

to tackle.

Small group 2V1, 2V2, 3V1, 3V2, 3V3

Attacking Keep possession, support, combination plays

Defending Pressure/cover; marking

Play a lot of small-sided games and coach within the games. Join in

PHYSICAL: Flexibility-stress this aspect because it cuts down on injuries and increases

range of motion.

Speed, Strength, Agility

MENTAL: Must be kept fun

Encourage decision-making

Imagination/Creativity/Risk Taking

Discipline/Boots polished/On Time/Set Standards

Encourage them to watch high-level games

U12 Goalkeeper

TECHNIQUE: Set position

General handling / Basic shot stopping / Catching

Ground balls

Bouncing balls

Mid-range balls

Head Height balls

Dealing with Crossed balls

Flighted

Driven

Distribution

Throws

Roll

Sling

All kicks

Goal kicks

Volleys

Balls played to feet

TACTICS: Basic communication

1v1 Principals

1v1 with the defense

Beginnings of support for defense

PHYSICAL: Goalkeeping specific stretching and flexibility

Beginning stages of foot work skills

Increase speed in short distances (18 yards)

MENTAL: Have fun

Encourage effort/determination

Drill home basics for muscle memory

Watch older goalkeepers in games

U14 Individual Skills and Small Group Tactics

Adult standards and formal rules become the focal point. The demands of skill training

as well as training loads should increase thus provoking improvement in mental

toughness, concentration and diligence.

Coach: Strong personality; Soccer knowledge; Enthusiastic; Demonstrate

TECHNIQUE: Build on the base. Development of individual skill under pressure

Dribbling Encourage players to take players on 1v1; Moves; Shielding and Spin turns.

Receiving Quality 1st touch. Still highly emphasized. Take balls out of air/turning; all

surfaces.

Passing Short, long, bent, crosses, driven, chipped; all surfaces and on the move.

Shooting On the run; on the turn; from all angles; Volleys; 1/2 volleys

Heading To goal; To pass; To clear

Tackling Proper technique and timing; Slide

TACTICS: Increase tactical speed (decision making)

Individual 1V1

Attacking Encourage the creative risk taker; take players on in proper areas of the field

Defending Proper pressure (in front and behind); Channel player; immediate chase

Small Group 2V1, 2V2, 3V2, 3V3, 4V2, 4V3, 4V4

Attacking Keep possession; Support; Combination Play; Width, Depth, Penetration;

Crossing with proper runs; Simple set plays

Defending Pressure-Cover-Balance, Compactness, Delay, Tracking back; Simple set plays

Play a lot of small-sided games and coach within the games. Join in

PHYSICAL: Flexibility, Agility

Speed

Strength

Endurance

MENTAL: The game must remain fun

Imagination/Creativity/Risk Taking

Increase Demands

Establish Training Targets

Maintain Discipline

Encourage them to watch high-level games.

U14 Goalkeeper

TECHNIQUE: Set position

General handling / Basic shot stopping / Catching

All heights

Diving

Collapse

Step and save

Power step and save

Reaction save

Recovery save

Crosses – catching & punching

Chipped serve

Flighted serve

Driven serve

unopposed and opposed.

Distribution

Throws

Roll

Side arm

Overarm

All kicks

Goal kicks

Volleys & ½ Volleys

Dealing with the back pass unopposed & opposed –

– control and increase range with both feet.

TACTICS: Communication (for each 1/3)

1v1 Principals

1v1 with the defense

Distance / Angles / Availability to support the defense

PHYSICAL: Warm ups and cool downs

Plyometric exercises

Goalkeeping specific stretching, flexibility and mobility exercises

Footwork all directions/planting of feet for change of lateral direction

Speed – 18 yards max distance (penalty box)

Check height/weight and vertical jump 4 times per year

MENTAL: Match and training preparation

Growth and development – diet and nutrition – lifestyle

Dealing with positive & negative assessments (praise and criticism)

Dealing with selection and tryouts with positive & negative results.

Soccer terminology

U16 Development of Skill and Group Tactics

This is a critical time in a player’s development. Many stop playing due to other interests, lack

of success, shortage of playing opportunities, poor coaching or other interests. Players tend to

be mentally tougher and more self confident but with a need for attention, security and further

nurturing. There is a need for team spirit, leadership and discipline within the team.

COACH: Charismatic; Experienced; Knowledgeable; Articulate; Disciplinarian;

Managerial Know How; Thoughtful Communicator

TECHNIQUE: Skills should be mastered leading to artistry. Technique should be

trained on the move, done at speed and all with opposition. Strike balls cleanly

and maturely over distance with accuracy and pace and all under pressure.

TACTICS: Increase Tactical Speed (decision making)

Group 3V3, 4V4, 5V5, 7V7

Attacking Keep Possession but with a Purpose-e.g. Direction

Combination Play and 3rd Man Runs

Penetration

Mobility/Creativity

Crossing with Pressure and Proper Runs into the Box

Set Plays

Defending Pressure-Cover-Balance

Compactness

Delay

Tracking Back

Communication (how, efficient)

Hunting the Ball and Winning Back Possession

Set Plays

PHYSICAL: Flexibility-Before and After Training/Games

Agility-With and Without the Ball

Speed Work

Endurance-Aerobic and Anaerobic

Strength-Upper and Lower Body

Nutrition-Proper Diet-Pre-Game, Post-Game, Tournaments, etc…

Prevention and Care of Injuries

MENTAL: Increased Concentration, Goalsetting, and Relaxation Techniques

Leadership/Player Responsibilities

Discipline

Respect for the Game/Opponent, Watch High Level Matches

U16 Goalkeeper

TECHNIQUE: Footwork / Set position / General handling techniques

Shot stopping / catch or deflect / recovery saves

All Dives

Collapse / Step and save / Power step and save

Narrowing the angle

Crosses

Served from all areas/angles unopposed & opposed

Distribution –

Throws

Improved range / power / variation - all techniques

Kicks

Goal kicks / Volleys / ½ Volleys

Dealing with the back pass under pressure –control

& first touch with both feet, variation of

pass.

TACTICS: Support - Angles / Distance

Communication – working with the defensive unit - recognizing

pressure on and of the ball

Presence

Making adjustments to stay in line with the ball (footwork)

Organization in defending set plays - free kicks and corner kicks

PHYSICAL: Warm-ups and Cool-downs

Stretching, flexibility, mobility and strengthening exercises

Plyometric exercises

Recovery exercises

Agility exercises – low intensity / low repetitions

Weight training – low weights/high reps

Footwork all directions (all goalkeeping movements)

Speed – 20-yards maximum

Check height/weight and vertical leap 4 times per year

Check body fat

MENTAL: Training and match preparation

Lifestyles/discipline

Living away from home

Dealing with competition

Physical confrontations

Dealing with pressure – internal/external

Dealing with both success and failure

U19 Developmental of Positional and Team Play

Fulfillment of a player’s potential depends on his or her own efforts, the support of his/her

teammates and the unselfish guidance of his or her coach. He/she must be exposed to a playing

and training environment, which extends his/her mental, physical and technical capabilities to

the limit. He/she must have a sound understanding of the game’s principles and concepts.

Players should show emotional stability when confronted with pressure situations. Demanding

and Challenging training sessions and matches are a must!!!

COACH: Charismatic; Well Informed; Up to Date; Experienced; Articulate;

Disciplinarian-No Doubts about who is in Charge; Managerial Know How

TECHNIQUE: Mastered Skill Leading to Artistry. All at Speed under Match Conditions.

Individual Skill Covered during warm-up

TACTICS: Increase Tactical Speed (Decision making).

Increase Pressure and Competition

Team/Functional- Understanding the Three Lines in the Team and their Collective

Responsibilities

Attacking Possession with a Purpose

Combination Play with Tactical Implications

Penetration with Variety, Creativity and Disguise

Counter Attack

Wide/Flank Play

Target Play and Creating Chances

Crossing under Pressure with Proper runs into the Box

Set Plays

Defending Zonal marking & Man marking with Sweeper Behind

Pressing as a Unit in Different 1/3’s

Set Plays

PHYSICAL: Flexibility Work Before and After Practices and Games

Agility-With and Without the Ball

Speed

Endurance-Aerobic and Anaerobic

Strength-Upper and Lower Body

Nutrition-Proper Diet-Pre-Game, Post-Game. Tournaments, etc…

Care and Prevention of Injuries

Care of their Own Bodies. e.g. toenails, shower, sleep, footwear

MENTAL: Increased Concentration

Leadership/Increased Player Responsibilities

Discipline

Respect for the Game/Opponents

Self-Confidence/Self Motivation-GoalSetting

Mental Imagery

Fighting Spirit-Will to Win

Encourage to Watch High Level Soccer

U19 Goalkeeper

TECHNICAL: Footwork/set position/general handling

All Dives

Collapse save / Step and save / Power step and save

Narrowing the angle

Shot stopping / catch or deflect / recovery saves

Advanced reaction saves

Crosses

Unopposed & Opposed

Working with the defensive unit

Distribution

Throws – all techniques

Kicks – all techniques

TACTICS: Distance of support / Playing off your line

Recognizing pressure on and off the ball.

Decision-making - last line of defense & first line of attack

Presence.

Organization of the defensive unit for transition

Organization on set plays – corners and free kicks

PHYSICAL: Warm up/cool down

Goalkeeping specific stretching, flexibility and mobility

Footwork exercises

Recovery exercises

Agility exercises

Plyometric exercise

Weight training – low weights high reps

Speed 20 yards maximum

Check height, weight – weekly

Body fat and vertical leap – check monthly

MENTAL: Application / Attitude

Following a coach’s game plan

Composure / Temperament / Dealing with the pressure

Concentration

Confidence

Consistency

Courage

Criticism – internal / external

Desire / Determination/ Winning mentality

Personal goal setting — imagery

 


The Youth Soccer Coach

By Mike Berticelli

You donate your time for the good of our youth, but you scream and you yell and are often uncouth.

Soccer is different, not like baseball at all. We don't need positions, just give them the ball.

The ref is just twelve and still learning the game,    but you call him a jerk and say he's not sane .   

They first must learn skill; it's the meat of the game. If they can't dribble or shoot, then who should we blame?

The parents are screaming and follow your lead, as you sprint up the sideline at uncontrollable speed. 

Skill must be learned through repeated trials.  If motivation is present, you will see them run miles.

You jump as you yell, "Pass, pass the ball!" You turn red as you bellow, Ref, make the damn call!"    

Fun games are the answer to encourage repetition. They laugh and they scream and enjoy competition.

"You're the left back now, get in your position, if you don't, we might lose and ruin our tradition!"

Without the skill to dribble past an opponent at will,          your players will win, but their growth will stand still.

Positions are needed so we look like a team, Cause they're miniature pros, or so it does seem.

I dream of the day when the parents just cheer         and losing the game doesn't bring out a tear.

The fullback is bored, he picks at his nose,While the others run wild and kick with their toes.

When practice is fun, not dull and so boring, And playing the game means more than just scoring.

You scream for a goal, no matter how it goes in, the skill doesn't matter, just as long as we win!

 I know you mean well and you donate your time,    but bury your ego and try something sublime

The parents go crazy as the ball nears the goal, their advice and instructions will soon take their toll.

Call all the parents and ask for their aid,  you’re teaching their kids and not getting paid.

You see, Junior feels pressure, he's not having much fun,  We tell him to pass, when to shoot and to run.

Your goal's to develop a youngster with skill,  Not a team that must win or some fancy new drill!

He came here to play and to use his own mind, Cause soccer's the most creative game that you'll find.

You See, players are not judged by their wins and their losses, Instead they are judged by their shots, heads and crosses

Imagination is needed on the part of each child, Solving problems on the field is what makes them go wild.

Scholarships are given to players with great names,  Not those on youth teams who never lost games.

A week of long practice, while just standing in line, Waiting to shoot, using one ball at a time.                    

A pro player gets paid 'cause his skills are real fine, Not because his team never lost when he was just nine.

This just doesn't cut it, and for some it's too late    Make your practices fun, don't be the coach that they hate.

It's time to bring soccer to new heights in this nation, The future's in players, not a coaching citation

They come to "play" soccer, not to "work" at the game, Their excitement is something we don't want to tame.

Let's start to say "dribble" and stop yelling "pass!"You'll then see our players go to the head of the class.

Maradona has moves that are beyond comprehension,  No coach taught those moves while threatening detention.

I hope you're concerned, but not really offended, It's the need for more skill that I have defended

He learned from his friends and tried copying others While playing in games, without coaches or mothers.  

You're giving your all, from the good of the heart, Why not make sure the kids get the right start?

 


My Kid is Going to Make it to the Big Leagues!
By Dan Freigang, Sport Psychologist with the U.S. National Team

I’m a normal parent and my bias is natural but I understand that my bias is not always confirmed in reality.  As parents, we try to provide opportunities and challenges for our children that will allow them to learn, progress and achieve.  In our society achievement is a primary goal.  We read book after book to them when they are little, drive them to practice at age ten and pay for their SAT prep courses so they’ll achieve high scores on their exams in high school.  To most middle class Americans this is standard fare.  You have also seen the parent who goes overboard and make their two month old review flash cards.  This is the parents who’s goal is helping their children’s chances of  getting  into a good college, and ultimately being successful in life.

Yes, many children need guidance, but the result can often backfire if the child’s needs and motivations are not recognized.   If you push an adult’s motivation on a child, the child will eventually resist.  You see, its not the child’s choice to invest and therefore the motivation is low.  We have seen parents try to advance their children’s sport career by changing teams or manipulating the coach.  Is this a parent’s need to live vicariously through their child or does the 8 year old need a coach with better technical skills?  My advice to parents is to proceed with caution, as the results can be destructive.  I am seeing this phenomenon regularly around the country, witnessing the destructive process of selecting a travel T-ball for 6 year olds.  I routinely field calls from parents of 5 year olds looking for advanced training.  Recently a prominent Youth soccer administrator was threatened because a parent wanted special treatment for his supposedly, talented child.  Why this phenomenon?  Because we as parents want the best for out children, but there are some sound scientific principles we can all use as healthy guidelines to provide opportunities for success.


Pushing kids equals kids pushing back 

You have seen children who have been told what to do their whole lives.  From 8 to 15 they appear talented and motivated.  They comply with heavy parental influence until they are 16 and then with dramatic defiance, quit the sport they have loved all their lives. It’s a common occurrence and many parents are baffled at their children’s choice  Every year children leave sport environments in staggering numbers. Why such a high drop out rate?  One-third of all participants drop out because of the following factors:  1) constant criticism or disapproval, 2) over competitive emphasis from adults, 3) little playing time, 4) an environment of fear, and 5) inappropriate full game structure.  The key here is that the child has not learned to internalize motivation like we talked above, and this is a key to constant development and enjoyable participation. There have been great strides in training theory, technical analysis and nutrition.  The results have been beneficial to everyone.  The Youth Soccer world has overwhelmingly accepted the principle of small sided games that allow for development and enjoyment on the technical side of coaching. The family unit is also a contributing factors in a child’s development.  It’s has always been a factor of success in school, sport and community and is now a hot issue in the soccer community.

Helping a Child’s motivation; playing in the zone

You have heard of the concept of flow or playing in the zone.  Musicians, athletes and scientists all report profound feelings of engagement when they are in the Zone.  This is a strong motivation but the key to get in the Zone is for the player to feel in control and ready for the demands of the task.  Children will come to activities that are challenging and enjoyable.  In some cases, young athletes are doing huge amounts of work but only if the demands are right for them.  The key is the work must be internally rewarding.   Internally rewarding means that they have the knowledge, goals and skills to make personal choices and regulate effort.  When these choices are removed by an overbearing coach or parent the joy of playing is removed as well
You have heard this before, players dribbling the ball, making perfect moves.  Players talk about this great feeling, playing without pressure, skilled and strong.   It’s called playing in the Zone.  Players talk about the zone in similar ways:


“I was mentally clear, my body pumped and I felt like a wizard" 

"Physically everything came to a peak my play just flowed." 

"It was fun and felt good”

"I was in the zone, I wasn't thinking of anything " 

"I was completely focused, like my body and mind were in perfect harmony" 


You have probably experienced this feeling yourself, while you where driving from Seattle to Spokane.  Have you ever been driving and thought, “I don’t remember passing that store’, because driving is easy for veterans and when you have a routine task your mind can engage in pleasant thoughts, putting you in the Zone. The key for our children is for parents and coaches to try and set the conditions for players to play in the zone daily.  This is a  difficult task  but new scientific research indicates that we can teach and recreate the conditions for playing in the Zone. This is a really important concept for everyone, especially children.  When people feel skilled and in control, they are motivated to continue that particular activity.  This is how human motivation works.  If children are matched to the right level of skill and focused upon the task they will have some degree of control and competence.  If the skill is too difficult the child chokes; too easy a skill and they are bored.  Playing in the Zone does something important, it gives motivational control to the child. That’s what we want, to help players to maximize intrinsic motivation. 


The Athlete Family:  the Keys to Success

Have you ever totaled up the cost of all your kids soccer experiences?  The fees, travel, meals, equipment and time really add up.  If you wanted a return on that investment then get yourself a broker and play the stock market.  If the rationale for investing your time and money is for the health and the development for your child then the logical extension is to make the home environment conducive to success as well.  Healthy development for young athletes requires the family to function at high levels.   When we sample and do research with successful people, we find similar patterns in their learning. Yes families from music, politics, art, science and education all have similar patterns of function.  Successful athletes usually have family support systems that are complex.  Complex, means their families are stable.  Stable families are found in both single parent as well as traditional family systems.  A stable home is one that allows the child to be safe, disciplined, cared for supported and loved.  The child needs to feel wanted and encouraged while in the home.  But wait,  the athletic family is also a family that encourages curiosity and allows the child to seek out and experience new challenges. Further it is a family that discusses values of achievement, support and progression.  The child is encouraged to risk with the blessing of the athletic family.   This allows the child to test, play and explore without fear of punishment or failure.  The complex home life allows the child to experience control and encouragement in a family safe environment.  Having experienced this feeling, the child is then encouraged to test their outside experiences to match their skill, and experience Flow (playing in the Zone) outside the home in activities of their own choice.  This is where you hear stories from great athletes talking about training and playing as a profound source of joy.   Read the stories of Wayne Gretzky, and Mia Hamm and you will recognize the contribution of stable and encouraging families.

When Good Parents Go Bad

Perhaps the most common pathway to destruction of a young player is to assume they want the same goals as their parents.  Do you remember what the number one motivational factor is for children?  It’s not winning or gaining a scholarship, its to be with their friends and have fun.  The family can run into problems when the parent’s authority crosses over by defining their children’s motivations. The parent unconsciously usurps control and motivation away from the child.  It backfires.  You see this often as soon as the game is over and parent begins to coach a child in the car on the drive home.  “You should have shot lower”, explains the father.  The child’s head lists to the side and their eyes roll back and they can’t wait to get out of the car, “I know Daddy.”  This interchange may seem harmless but think about the child’s motivation.  If they receive enough adult criticism they will lose control and motivation and the pathway to quitting is established.  This is not allowing the child to play in the Zone.

Dan Freigang Ph.D.  is a sport scientist working with the U.S.S.F. in Sport Psychology.   Dan was an international athlete and national team coach and he presents his workshops as a unique blend of scientist and coach.  He is currently in private practice and invites your comments and inquiries. Caldan@Earthlink.net  (801) 392-4762.


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